About Toldos

Every generation deserves the chance to break the cycle it inherited.

Toldos was founded to give families facing divorce — or still working through its aftermath — somewhere comprehensive to turn, instead of piecing support together on their own.

Our Mission

Too often, someone facing the possibility of divorce has to choose between advice that ignores their faith and community, or community guidance that isn't equipped for the practical realities of crisis, legal process, and co-parenting. Toldos exists to close that gap.

We provide coaching, connect people with a trusted network of therapists, attorneys, and rabbis, and work to make sure no one in our community has to navigate a marriage in crisis without support that understands where they come from.

Why Toldos Exists

For a long time, there's been no single place for a family facing divorce — or still working through its aftermath — to turn. A therapist addresses the emotional weight. An attorney handles the legal process. A rabbi offers guidance rooted in faith and community. Each plays a real role, but none of them is responsible for the whole picture — and the family is left to coordinate all of it themselves, usually while already overwhelmed.

Toldos exists to fill that gap. Not by replacing any of those roles, but by sitting at the center of them: providing coaching through the process itself, and connecting each family to the right people at the right time — so getting help doesn't become its own full-time job.

Cross-section of tree growth rings, representing generations and continuity
Toldos — generations, and what we pass on to them.
Our Approach

What guides how we work

Faith-Centered

Guidance that takes faith and community life seriously, not as an afterthought to secular advice.

Network, Not Just Advice

You're connected to the right people — therapists, attorneys, rabbis — not left to find them alone.

Children First

Every decision is weighed against what protects children's stability, both now and long after.

You don't have to carry this alone

Wherever you are in the journey, reaching out doesn't commit you to anything — it just means you're no longer figuring it out by yourself.

Find Your Path
Prefer to talk now? Call 646-PARENTS (646-727-3687)
or email info@ourtoldos.org